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Do Brick's High School Plays Go Too Far?

Some parents speak out about profanity, sexuality in school plays

How far is too far when it comes to high school plays?

It may be a question the township's school board will eventually have to answer, after several parents railed against what they see as excess profanity and sexuality in student performances.

"We brought our second grade daughter to the high school play, and there was profanity bombing everywhere," said Robert Fraser, who added that he has a child involved in theater, and the attitude towards parents who take issue with the content of shows concerns him.

"It was offered that those who do not approve should stay home," he said, of Brick Township Memorial High School plays.

Brick Memorial High School drama teacher Joseph Stefanelli did not respond to a request from Brick Patch to be interviewed for this story.

But regardless of the teacher, or the school, some parents say they've had enough with content in school plays they feel is inappropriate.

"The problem that has come is that, as the years have evolved, it's a case of one-upmanship. People keep pushing the envelope," said Karyn Cusanelli, who said her daughter has participated in theater at Brick Memorial. "It's getting a little out of hand, and that's why people are coming forward now."

Board of Education President Sharon Kight said she's received calls from parents who were not comfortable with the content of some recent schools plays.

"They brought young children, they were sitting in the front row, and out and out, unnecessary profanity was used," said Kight. "I think the board needs to get more involved in the content of the plays. I was told that there were several young women who did not try out for plays because of the costumes that were picked. They were very uncomfortable wearing these costumes in public."

Not all parents take issue with edgy content in school plays, however.

"These are high school students," said Roberta Mascali. "I'm happy with the content, I'm happy with everything they've done. They're high school students. If you want to get high school students involved, you want young people to come out and see these plays. If you do plays that are going to be very young minded, you're not going to get these students out there."

Mascali said, and sources confirmed, that the school district cannot legally allow the content of a play to be changed when it is performed by students. Before a play is performed, the Board of Education enters into a somewhat complex agreement with a company that allows the students to use the script from the original performance of a play. Those contracts do not allow modifications to the script.

"They are high school kids, and they need to do high school aged shows," Mascali said.

But at least one parent voiced concern that performing a play with controversial content could alienate some students. Mary Tivenan said her daughter was "concerned about the plays she's in."

"I think plays should be edifying and educating," said Tivenan. "I think plays that exclude kids because of the material shouldn't be in public schools. It's not inclusive."

But while the role of the Board of Education, historically, has been to simply ratify the contract with the company providing the script for a play, board members could exercise some judgment calls as to which types of plays are appropriate for students, according to Robert Budesa, one of the attorneys who represents the school board.

"I think that this board has the ability to set standards as to what they think the content of a play should be," Budesa said. "I think the board should discuss it and come up with a  policy. This board can definitely set parameters as to what can be produced and what cannot. Some may be difficult to chisel in stone, but there can be parameters."

As it stands now, which plays will be performed are generally decided by the school drama teacher with the approval of the building principal, according to Superintendent Walter Hrycenko. However in some instances, plays have been shut down by administrators. A performance of the play "Urinetown" was nixed, mainly because the administration felt advertising such a play on signs around town would not be well-received, Hrycenko said.

There's no word on how the matter will be handled from here on out, but even the most serious discussions don't end without some irony.

"Am I allowed to use profanity here?" asked resident Vic Fanelli of school board members following the discussion about the play.

"No," Kight answered.

"Well, according to what I heard, maybe we'd get more people here if we did," he said.

justanotherstudent December 28, 2011 at 05:47 pm
Why does being a new teacher, make them a bad teacher? You can't get experiance without being a "newbie" at some point. Our directors are amazing and shouldn't be blamed for the shows we are allowed to do. We are limited on the number of actors and actresses we have, espically the actors and for what we believe we can perform. Also, from what the BOE allows us to do. I do somewhat agree that with the reasoning behind denying Urinetown, though it is a great show. And I would love to do the shows KC mentioned, such as "Long Days" and "Death of a Saleman" since I love both of those shows, but can you really tell me that neither of those shows would bring about anything about it being "inappropriate." You will never find a show that is perfect for all ages. We want a show that works for high school students.
KC December 28, 2011 at 07:24 pm
Newbies not inherently "bad", but quite often unseasoned. A perfect show? "Our town"!
NRyan December 29, 2011 at 02:16 am
As we all know everything performed serves a purpose. The main purpose of the arts is to of course entertain; however, the creative individuals also place real life lessons and morals into the plot to have the audience not only have an enjoyable experience but actually have it impact their everyday lives. As we all know, teenagers today are exposed to profanity in their day to day events, mainly school. Since these undertones happen in the real world, the audience is drawn into the reality driven plot and is intrigued and entertained at the same time which makes for a succesful production. I am a student who was involved in "Rent" last year at Brick Township High School, and let me tell you it was one of the most eye-opening and life-changing experiences of my life. To those who are not aware, Rent is one of the few musicals to win a Pulitzer Prize among many other awards. Our director chose the show based on what we needed to learn about our surroundings. A lesson of tolerance and awareness was a much needed slap in the face for a majority of the students and residents of Brick Township; especially after the then-recent suicide of the Rutgers University student. Each audience member who left the auditorium stated it was the most brilliant production to ever be performed on the Brick High School stage. At the high school level it is all about the learning experience for the cast, the crew, the audience, and even the director. People, there is no better education than that!
Bob Fraser December 29, 2011 at 04:10 am
T-Mag, how was it you decided Mr. S was joking? He said, if you support me, come to the school board meeting. If you don't, stay home!. That was a pretty clear statement, and does not, and did not at the time, seem funny at all.
if you couple this with his announcement that night that he would not feel comfortable working with students whos parents disagreed with his positions/selections, it was pretty clear his opinion is we are either "with him, or against him". Perhaps his idea of humor and mine differ too.
Bob Fraser December 29, 2011 at 04:17 am
T-Mag, the only people in this issue so far ho have suggested parents get out of the discussion are:
Mr. Stephanelli, who did not want parents who merely questioned his judgement to attend school board meetings, and: Jennifer Roebuck, who has told us on this forum that we as parents have far more important issues to attend to before we can address this issue, and as parents, we should trust entirely in the hired professionals in this matter. Quotes available uopn request.
Bob Fraser December 29, 2011 at 04:36 am
@ Citizen: I will answer your question as I have answered other questions like this; GO ASK Mr Stephanelli: I am not making ANY of this up. At the meeting Mr. S called on or about 12/04, he was asked, (and I paraphrase):
Do you seek the students input? Answer: No. He cannot let every student dictate what show THEY want to star in. you might recognize this arguement from some of the other posts here. I agree with him on this issue. We NEVER let the inmates run the asylum. Do you seek the Drama Club Board input? Answer: No. Why does the club HAVE an E-Board at all, then? Lastly, and the question I have asked again, and again, and again, which everyone is reluctant to address, is the whole "I would be uncomfortable having your kids in my program if we disagree" with his content decisions comment. Does kicking someone out of Drama Club because you disagree with their parents seem a little "OFF" to you? This IS what he said. Maybe all the people yelling CENSORSHIP should look up BLACKBALLING before they get the soapbox out.
Bob Fraser December 29, 2011 at 04:40 am
Theresa,
why do you feel you are the one to regulate how much the rest of us can have a "say so" in? What problems do you feel I should be MORE concerned about that my childrens education?
Bob Fraser December 29, 2011 at 04:49 am
Ms. Roebuck,
I am patiently awaiting your response to my question. I have four daughters, currently spanning 2nd grade to 12th grade, and you are the VERY FIRST teacher throughout six schools they collectively attended throughout their ongoing education who EVER suggested a parent "leave things to the professionals" .
Bob Fraser December 29, 2011 at 05:15 am
Anonymous: I THINK, that this is new territory we are breaking in Brick. It is possible that content has never been an issue until now. As I understand it: Up until BMHS put in a req for payment to purchase the rights to perform "Urinetown", the issue over content has never made it to an executive level.
The Board, "unofficially" letting BMHS know they thought Urinetown was not an appropriate selection seems to be the start of the issue. It seems, BTHS did a show recently, which was to some opinions, a little scandalous. Mr. S of BMHS seemed upset by this. At the meeting I attended which he called, he stated his intentions to call out the Board at the December board meeting regarding Urinetown. For reasons known to him, this confrontation did not happen. FURTHER complicating the issue: it has been stated many times that it is illegal to alter a script, BUT: many people here have stated this is INDEED done, and also, it is my understanding that not every performance the high schools perform are from CONTRACTED scripts, thereby excluding them from this liability. I only mention as I have noted several statements where we are being lectured on the legality of a script as a contractual document, yet several posts later, it is clear changes ARE INDEED being made. Another of my awkward questions: Why is it acceptable for the director to make changes to a script, but borderline Nazi-ism if a parent suggests the same? Again, quote available on request.
Greg December 30, 2011 at 12:26 am
First, I'd like to thank all of you who have weighed in. I am high school director in the process of picking this year's show and came upon this thread accidentally. There seems to be an inherent trust issue going on here, and no one seems to see a way out. The analogy to Footloose is actually quite appropriate here. The wide array of opinions can never be bridged in a discussion such as this. You can never appease those who want to see yet another production of Our Town - you can't do it every year. You also have to judge your community when you choose a play, and language is always a huge consideration. I particularly liked the student who defended performance material versus class material - this is perhaps the most salient point thus far. There is no real difference between books and stage, especially when one MUST read the curriculum in that class, that is unless you have substitute books for the likes of Catcher in the Rye. The reality is that the cannon of literature is changing just as fast as that which might be construed as fine theater. Today's kids are forced to be more mature, more adult, and it's our job as educators to put in them in contact with material that will help them work their way out of adolescence and into adulthood. By the way, I am neither a "newbie" nor a "relic" but I like to think that I walk the line of both. I'd love to do The Laramie Project but I know I don't have the support, and I'd die before doing Our Town. The middle's best. Good Luck!
Bob Fraser December 30, 2011 at 01:38 am
the money to purchase the scripts comes from out tax dollars. Why should we not be allowed to voice our opinion on what they are spent on?
KC December 30, 2011 at 03:31 am
Hark I hear a cannon! Methinks thou doth mean "canon", your point is not lost despite an unfortunate use of synonym. :0)
KC December 30, 2011 at 03:37 am
I love that symbolism - David in underwear lol. would they be briefs or boxers?
Elizabeth December 30, 2011 at 01:03 pm
Intelligently and bravely stated...
Elizabeth December 30, 2011 at 02:30 pm
Hi Megan, Your side note showed (what I'm sure was an unintentional) clear lack of compassion for a fellow Drama club member. As I understand it, the productions in an involved Drama member's senior year are very special. If Yup is a senior and has strong reservation about the content of a production, then he/she is being told that he/she is out of luck. There is more than a hint of sadness in this student's posts. Where is the Drama Club family for this student?
clamdigger December 30, 2011 at 04:41 pm
Hello Elizabeth, I'd like to take a minute to add that Megan's response of "In reality, it's not the high school play or nothing. You do have choices." goes both ways.
There appears to be a level of what is accepted in ones private home,what one does on their own time on a personal level,what parents allow children/teens to do,listen to,read or any other avenue of media is to be applied toward the drama productions the schools do publicly. I'd like to know what is the problem in changing the dialogue for the performances? I understand it may be an issue with the writers and the school can get in trouble for changing the script and/or dialogue w/o proper authorization but isn't there an avenue to request changes which are questionable? Isn't there a way of preformaing an "adaptation" version of whatever play is to be done so they can be community friendly?
stellaluna January 2, 2012 at 05:00 pm
If parents of students performing do not want their kids involved they wouldnt be and if the community doesnt approve of the subject matter there would not be an audience...obviously the majority loves what our drama advisors are doing or we would have an empty stage and empty auditorium...the students who are involved in these plays are not in the streets, not in gangs, not doing drugs..and correct me if I am wrong but I believe they need to keep a certain grade point average in order to participate? It seems as thoug the days of plays such as Bye Bye Birdie are long gone (my sister did Bye Bye Birdie in 1977!!!).....the kids are involved because they love the choices of productions and its their time now...not ours....they are good kids...I think BTHS has an awesome drama advisor!! She is loved by many students, staff and parents...If she did not care so much it would be easy to just do the productions that have been done to death....she wants (I think) to see the kids be excited and possibly do plays as not to be in the shadow of those who have been on the stage in previous years...just an added comment (I have never commented before so please be kind with your replies to me as I was taught as a child not to be mean to others)
stellaluna January 2, 2012 at 05:00 pm
how bout focusing more on the alcohol being served at homes during parties because parents think its "safe".....my 16 yr old has many friends who are allowed to drink at home...shame on those who promote drinking for underage children!!! also lets try to help the kids by getting new uniforms for some of the sports at the middle school level..some teams are wearing unmatching jerseys and using tape to fix the numbers....as a parent I am more than willing to contribute and have those jerseys handed down to the next group of kids after mine graduate but its sad that no one ever talks about these things...I apologize if they do perhaps I just didnt see or hear it!! Happy New Year!!
alisa mirabella January 13, 2012 at 05:20 pm
Urinetown is not profane. It is not risque. It is timely and creative. I was not sure that the word urine was considered a "bad" word. Read it before you comment.
Scott Frelund January 18, 2012 at 06:54 pm
I do have to say, reading these comments makes me happy that there are so many people in Brick Township who are passionate about something other than our football teams (yeah, they're great. We get it). In reading, however, I have seen such ignorance that is far from surprising. I attended BTHS for my freshman and sophomore years, in which we staged and performed numerous productions ("Grease" and "Into the Woods" to name a few). The summer before my junior year, my family and I moved to Voorhees, on the southwest side of Jersey. I attended Eastern High School, one of the best high schools in the state (also one where the budget gets passed EVERY SINGLE YEAR). My senior year (2010), we had the chance to perform "Chicago", being one of the first high schools in the tri-state area to be granted the rights. Not one member of the board of ed had complained about any of the risqué themes in the show. In fact, the board of ed even granted the production team the right to let myself play the character of Mary Sunshine, which is traditionally played on Broadway and the numerous tours by a male in drag. The board of education for Eastern High School was not nearly as worried about the content of our productions as they were supporting the amazing talent that the student body possesses. I know plenty of the kids that I went to school with both at BTHS and EHS have gone on to very successful training and careers in the theatre.
Scott Frelund January 18, 2012 at 07:02 pm
(continued) We as citizens and tax payers should worry more about supporting our students in every way, shape, or form. Why waste so much time worrying if our students are cursing on stage (Hello, walk down the halls of ANY high school in America and you will hear an abundance of curse words you never thought existed). Worry about making the facilities more up-to-date and safe for our children. Worry about making sure our students get the best support and education they can to become amazing figures in history. I have to agree with some of the comments I saw on here. Sheltering our students will not advance them in any way. Students need to progress and learn in order to become the best they can. If you wish to censor what these students are exposed to, whether it be on stage, in the classroom, or even on the field, you are depriving YOUR children of what they need to become the best they can.
Also, I would just like to know that RENT is one of the most successful shows in Broadway history. During its record-setting 12 year run, it was the recipient of the Pulitzer Prize for Drama. Getting the chance to perform in something of that caliber is once in a lifetime. If your children and students are as dedicated to the theatre as I am, you would not want to stifle that moment.
Bob Fraser January 19, 2012 at 01:09 am
Ms. Roebuck,
It may be I missed your responses to my questions: Do you indeed feel parents should stay out of educational decisions, and leave things to the experts? I have been waiting patiently for you to elaborate on your opinion we as parents should defer......
Bob Fraser January 19, 2012 at 01:20 am
Stella,
the facts do not support your arguement. Bye Bye Birdie, which you remember so fondly, was the musical which had the highest attendance in BMHS in recent years, by Mr. S's admission, only last year. Never was the quality of the direction called into question. To restate the objection: Mr. Stephanelli publicly refuses to review content of his productions with: Parents Drama Club Exec Board School Board Drama Club Members Complicting this problem, he has further stated, he does not want to work with students who's parents may object to his choices. Blackballing students, because a teacher objects to a parents position is JUST, and arguably WORSE that the alleged censcorship everyone is yelling about here.
Kelly Conroy January 19, 2012 at 03:46 pm
The correct spelling is Stefanelli, and I think some of you parents should find a new hobby...this is pretty pathetic...
Theresa January 19, 2012 at 05:10 pm
I don't "regulate" how much say the "rest of you" have. That's what Brick's town goverment is for. I just felt this was a perfect opportunity and example to highlight that where concern is lacking in the education system of brick. Education should be your main concern, but where people put their time and energy into voicing their opinions is unbalanced. Like I posted previously, the unsanitary conditions of buildings, poor-conditioned textbooks and other educational materials, and lack of support from the community as a whole should have over 200 comments/concerns rather than high school drama. At least you do care about your kids..
Jennifer Roebuck January 21, 2012 at 11:59 am
Well said, Greg.
Reality January 21, 2012 at 01:43 pm
Ms. Roebuck, You do realize your resume only gives credence to those who believe the old saying, "Those who can, do; those who can't, teach." (No, I don't believe this myself.)
I'm sorry you weren't able to make it in acting yourself. Hopefully, you at least share your story with your students so they can glimpse how difficult it actually is to break into the acting world.
Jennifer Roebuck January 21, 2012 at 02:16 pm
Reality~ If your definition of "making it" is fame and great financial fortune, then you are correct. I did not "make it." If, however, the definition of "making it" is the ability to make a living as a working actress for many years with artists that inspired me in a city that I love, while learning and growing as an individual and being able to teach and inspire my child and students ~ then, not only have I "Made It," but, my ideas of success supersede any that I had ever imagined. Have you been given the gift of watching a student grow from novice to full scholarship acting student at NYU under your guidance and direction? Have you had the pleasure of guiding a student away from drug abuse, violence, and fear to a family of actors on stage and off while remaining sober, and shining as a lead in his first play? THAT my friend IS MAKING IT! What a truly blissful life to wake up each morning and love what I teach and where I teach it. Do you enjoy going to work each day, Reality?
Reality January 22, 2012 at 12:33 am
Hmm, looks like I definitely hit a sore spot here! Again, I think the real lesson you are teaching your students its that it's extremely difficult to make it as a working actor.
I'm happy for you though that you get to brag about your guest roles to Brick teenagers and here on this board! Guess that's your stage now.
Elizabeth January 22, 2012 at 02:48 pm
Reality, if you are an adult, please have a friend read your last few posts. They are petty and I am sure not where you planned to go when you first started posting on this site, And Ms. Roebuck, even though I emphatically disagree with you on this subject, why do you feel the need to justify yourself? You are a professional and obviously one with a passion for your work.

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